secondry school do's and don't 's

Secondary school is a giant leap in the educational industry. harder school work, more sinister teachers, a backpack tearing open every few minutes because of the thick school books you have to carry home, and a lot of fake people. 

If you are going into first year in Secondary soon, then you might want to read on as i have a LOT of tips to share👧

 1. Do NOT be scared 👍

It can be extremely and utterly TERRIFYING on your very first day of a new milestone  out of the four education stages. Especially as everyone you know expects you to be more mature now that your years in primary school have come to an end and you are going into a more larger education system. 

Now you can call me crazy, but there really is not much reason to be scared. sure your heading in to a whole new place, but trust me, it's going to be okay. You will most lightly soon settle in and get used to the unfamiliar changes.

However, if you are still petrified, here is a helpful and reassuring video to thankfully console you:

2. STAND YOUR GROUND💪

Honey believe me people can be horrid and cruel. There's no point in thinking that everyone in your new school will like you, there's always one person who is either jealous of you, or just does not like your personality in general. 

    But it's of a highly great importance status tat you ignore them, tell an adult if you are being bullied, and don't let them get into your way. Most times they annoy you, they are only looking for attention, so just don't give them it girl!. Ignore them. Remind yourself that your parents enrolled you in this Secondary school for you to study, learn, and get a well-paid salary in a job you actually enjoy when your older, they did not send you to school for you to get into detention and be a drama queen.

Also remember that plenty of people are fake friends. You will most lightly come across a few of these people. I have come across one too, but quickly removed them from my life.

3. Unique is the way to go

Being unique is awesome. Sure maybe you don’t have all the new designer clothes Emily and the other popular girls own, but do you NEED Calvin Klein jeans?. No you don’t. Be you going into secondary school. Know your interests, your fears, who your real friends are, e.t.c. 

4. GET YOUR SCHOOLWORK DONE IMMEDIATELY 

Yes so maybe Mr Brown went a little overboard on the extra maths homework, but still complete your homework on time, don’t procrastinate, relax and do it. And please do not save it for later, I’m made that mistake way to many times 🤦🏽‍♀️. 

Overall you should enjoy first year. It’s probably never going to happen again unless you have to repeat the year, but other than that it’s a once in a lifetime opportunity so seize it. Love yourself always mini Kay’s and I’ll see you soon 💕.